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Hi Everybody!
I started this blog as a way to begin to sort out my thoughts and feelings around a near death experience I had years ago that I never really processed….I love what bubbles up and moves through me as I write. There is always the intention to help others, really in whatever I do, so I hope whatever moves through my fingers onto the screen can serve you in some way. In fact, it will, because that’s how the universe works 🙂 We always get just what we need at the perfect time, the perfect place and in the perfect way. Love to you! xox
Oh! Email me if you want! 🙂
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Matters Of Life And Death 
15 thoughts on “Home”
Angela
I found your interview on YouTube. It was somewhat reassuring, but I am very depressed at the state of my life. I have taken so many actions to try to improve things and I have lost hope over the bad people and bad situations that persist. Is there something you could tell me that Would be helpful? Some action I could take to rise above those out to harm me?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Angela, I hope you received my message to you. Please let me know. I’m sending you so much love. xoxo
Terrence Hendricks
Where may I purchase a copy of your book, I Died And Learned How To Live?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
I have taken it off Amazon to rework it and will be republishing sometime in the near future. I will post here when I do. Thank you for your interest! Love, Krista
Angela M Bolton
Hello Krista, Thank you so much for replying! No, I did not receive your message. Please send again, if you can. Many thanks!
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Angela…I just republished I Died And Learned How To Live..maybe you will find something in it that helps..sending so much love to you xox Krista
Sharon Harris
Hi Krista. I really enjoyed the video. I found your story fascinating. I tried to buy your book on Amazon, but it was not available (except for over $400 by a 3rd party seller.) Are you going to put it out again? Here’s an idea: Createspace.com is part of Amazon. You can upload your book there for free and they don’t print any copies until someone orders one. I wrote a little children’s chapter book called “Ray’s Violet: The Story of a Most Extraordinary Lightning Bug” and that is how mine works. It shows up on Amazon.com just like any other book. If you did that, people could have access to your book and it would not cost you anything. You might check it out.
I love hearing about your description of love. The only thing that bothers me sometimes is that sometimes it is difficult to know what “love” would do in certain situations. My husband has two sons who are my step-sons. They are in their late 50’s and keep asking for money to help them because they can’t seem to support themselves on their “painting business” which is very sporatic. They call saying they are about to be on the street and want money to get an apartment and a computer to develop a website for there business. We have helped them many times, but my husband told them over a year ago that we could not give them any more money. They have called again asking for $3000, etc. They are both single and live together in a motel room right now. My husband told them recently to stop harassing us or he would call the police.
So, my dilemma is: what is love in this case? Giving them money will just keep them dependent and coming back for more. It does not seem loving to tell them not to contact us (because they don’t except to beg for money), but it is kind of a hardship on us to keep giving them money and it doesn’t actually help them in the long run. I often feel guilty that we are not helping them, but I know there are places to go to get help if they become homeless that is not taking advantage of us. My husband fears that if he dies soon (he’s eighty and not in best health) that they will pester me and not ever stop if I do help them.
Spiritual teachers say that you have to love yourself also–and probably first. You hinted at that in the video. I’d love to hear more about your thoughts on that. I think that we (I) almost have to divorce myself from the situation in order to protect myself from them. Can that be love?
I’m just confused about that, and somehow I thought to ask you about your thoughts. I haven’t done that before.
Thank you if you have time to reply. If not, I hope you will consider making your book available to the public. If it is available and I missed it, please let me know how to get it.
Thanks,
Sharon Harris
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Sharon thank you so much for sharing. It’s been my experience that when I honor myself first, everything else falls into place. Lovingly saying no is a lesson for all of us. Detaching from their struggles is healthy if it’s done with love. My book was self published through Createspace and I will publish it again one day soon. In the meantime, my story will be coming out in another book to be published at the end of the year. It’s a book that includes other NDE stories and words of healing, through love. My very best to you and your husband.
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Sharon! I republished my book…you can find it on Amazon 🙂 xox
Angela Smith
Hi Krista,
I echo what other people have noted in that you mention it’s important for us to love ourselves. How does that play out in (your opinion) in relationships? I mean some would say you’re being selfish. How do you differentiate bring selfish and making decisions for your best interest and not wanting to hurt people and struggling with breaking commitments? Is there a way to check if a decision is originated in self love or selfishness and wrong thinking?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Angela,
Discernment regarding whether a thought, statement, action is selfish is through the level of ego involved. For me, deciding whether or not I’m coming from a place of ego is by assessing the level of fear associated with the situation. Fear is ego. Anger is ego. Breaking a situation that is disturbing down to its most basic source always reduces to fear/ego. Then, what can we do to shift into a space of love to improve it? Loving ourselves and honoring what is healthy, good, right for ourselves in any situation can only be for the best. The reaction of the other is not your responsibility, it’s theirs. That is my short answer! Much Love! xox
Krista
Kris
Hello Krista,
I’m watching Morgan Freeman”s special about God and saw your interview. Your experience sounds so similar to mine. I was sick sometimes as a kid, and must have been near death (my speculation) as a child when, one night my dreams became so real when angels came (I felt like they were family before this life, they were known to me yet I did not recognize any oft them from this life). I flew with them, communicated without speaking words, and was invited to stay with them just like you. The feeling the whole time was a peaceful euphoria. I know for sure there is God and an afterlife, I was shown it. But I’ve only shared with a few people about this. What was the purpose for my choice to come back? What is my responsibility? I envy you that you understand your purpose and you know you came back for your daughter, I’m 50 yrs old now and still not sure how to fulfill any obligations for this. Thank you for sharing, it was great for me to hear.
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Thank you for sharing your experience, Kris. I would suggest sitting in meditation and allowing the answers to arise for you. Your body holds energetic wisdom and when we are free from resistance, it is allowed to receive and resonate with the energies of the universe. The answers will be clear to you. Much Love!
Julia Harding
Hi Krista
I have just watched you tonight on the PassionHarvest interview. THANKYOU … 🌷 Your story has brought me great comfort as my internet friend died today after a 2 year battle with cancer. We met on an art FB page and started messaging after finding out we both had cancer, I have stage 4 cancer too. So it helped confirm what I already believe about life after death. ……Can I just enquire about asking the Universe? I just want to know ‘my purpose’ here on Earth? I was an Emergency Nurse for 10 years and then a practice nurse before being diagnosed with metastatic cancer last year age 51. I was at the time very stressed and was having anxiety attacks working as a nurse and I wanted a way out of nursing, I asked the universe many times in prayer & meditation to help me find my perfect career. I loved painting and needed ‘space in my life’ to paint. I have kept a journal and imagined my perfect life. Then I got cancer and now I have ‘all the time and space’ I need in between treatments…… therefore my question is “did the universe organise my life in this way?” To allow me ‘space’? So I can create my Art? to teach me? I have always felt calm and positive at each step of my cancer journey so far, for some unknown reason it has never devastated me? I feel in my heart I will survive and get well despite the odds being against that, I feel I need to have this experience to help share how my positivity is healing me with others, does this make sense? Thank you again, and I have looked for your book on Amazon but cannot find it?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Thank you so much for sharing, Julia! You have all knowledge, you are all-knowing. I recommend meditating every day, if you don’t already have a practice. It is in the silent space of openness that we are able to connect best. It clears us. It is my personal understanding that we are here to Love. It is that simple. It seems as if your intention, coupled with that of the Universe (i.e. Love) have co-created the space you now have, along with your ability to be present on your journey. It is my feeling we have the ability to influence absolutely everything in whichever way we choose. Love heals. My book is called I Died And Learned How To Live. It is available on Kindle only right now. I am sending Love to you and will every single day.
Krista xox